lol responses are slow due to I was all ready only a 2 finger typist.
When it came to making the wife happy the porta head and solar shower made a hugh infuance (she found out after it was over the marina had real showers

i'm sure "lettepng her be captain and in control" also helped (you married guys know what I'm saying)
I really think the idea of her seeing me here in the fourm getting alot of great advise and information so that there was nothing but confidence comming from me the whole time we were out there.
If your going to ancor someplace I would do it when its light so they can see you arn't going anywhere.
My wife seemed to like this more then our bus campouts.
I'm sure its going to take a few more of these smooth sailings before we blue water sail.
Funny thing is she has been begging to go fishing and got her license but forgot her gear so I guess its another overnight sail.
as far as the other lady ... I need to lube the slugs some how and change the rudder line , and the keel wench ....it and the BFH have a date.
Hey Tim please tell your father in law thanks again the tiller is great, the wife said it was easy enough to hold the times she did the sailing.